Oct 8 2009

The Son

This story was sent to me by Aimee H.

A wealthy man and his son loved to collect rare works of art. They had everything in their collection, from
Picasso to Raphael. They would often sit together and admire the great works of art.

When the Vietnam conflict broke out, the son went to war. He was very courageous and died in battle while
rescuing another soldier. The father was notified and grieved deeply for his only son.

About a month later, just before Christmas, there was a knock at the door. A young man stood at the door
with a large package in his hands.

He said, “Sir, you don’t know me, but I am the soldier for whom your son gave his life. He saved many lives
that day, and he was carrying me to safety when a bullet struck him in the heart and he died instantly. He
often talked about you, and your love for art.” The young man held out the package. “I know this isn’t much.
I’m not really a great artist, but I think your son would have wanted you to have this.”

The father opened the package. It was a portrait of his son, painted by the young man. He stared in awe at the
way the soldier had captured the personality of his son in the painting. The father was so drawn to the eyes
that his own eyes welled up with tears. He thanked the young man and offered to pay him for the picture.
“Oh, no sir, I could never repay what your son did for me. It’s a gift.”

The father hung the portrait over his mantle. Every time visitors came to his home, he took them to see the
portrait of his son before he showed them any of the other great works he had collected.

The man died a few months later. There was to be a great auction for his paintings. Many influential people
gathered, excited over seeing the great paintings and having an opportunity to purchase one for their collection.

On the platform sat the painting of the son. The auctioneer pounded his gavel. “We will start the bidding with
this picture of the son. Who will bid for this picture?”

There was silence.

Then a voice in the back of the room shouted, “We want to see the famous paintings. Skip this one.”

But the auctioneer persisted. “Will somebody bid for this painting? Who will start the bidding? $100, $200?”

Another voice angrily said, “We didn’t come to see this painting. We came to see the Van Goghs, the
Rembrandts. Get on with the real bids!”

But still the auctioneer continued. “The son! The son! Who’ll take the son?”

Finally, a voice came from the very back of the room. It was the longtime gardener of the man and his son. “I’ll
give $10 for the painting.” Being a poor man, it was all he could afford.

“We have $10, who will bid $20?”

“Give it to him for $10. Let’s see the masters!”

“Ten dollars is the bid. Won’t someone bid $20?”

The crowd was becoming angry. They didn’t want the picture of the son.
They wanted the more worthy investments for their collections.

The auctioneer pounded the gavel. “Going once, twice, sold for $10!”

A man sitting in the second row shouted, “Now, let’s get on with the collection!”

The auctioneer laid down his gavel. “I’m sorry, the auction is over.”

“What about the paintings?”

“I am sorry. When I was called to conduct this auction, I was told of a secret stipulation in the will. I was not
allowed to reveal that stipulation until this time. Only the painting of the son would be auctioned. Whoever
bought that painting would inherit the entire estate, including the paintings. The man who took the son gets
everything!”

God gave His son 2,000 years ago to die on the cross. Much like the auctioneer, His message today is, “The
son, the son, who’ll take the son?”

Because, you see, whoever takes the Son, gets everything.

Author Unknown

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Oct 6 2009

Purpose Driven

Originally Featured in The Javien Chronicles #24

Last May I completed my 5th and maybe my last marathon. During my training I would run anywhere from 10 to 20+ miles a week. After I completed the marathon I took some time to let my body heal. One week turned into two and then two weeks turned into four months.

A few weeks ago my friend Eric asked me if I was still running. I replied to him that I hadn’t done much running in the last four months due to a lack of motivation. He pointed out that maybe the lack of motivation was due to the fact that I didn’t have a race scheduled. 

His comment made me say, “Aha!” His comment was so obvious but at the same time the most obvious things are often overlooked.

That brings me to ask you a few questions. What is your life’s purpose? What are your goals when it comes to physical fitness, finances, and relationships? Once you complete your existing goals what’s next?

I believe you need to write down your goals and be prepared for your next challenge. If you don’t set long term goals you may find yourself in a valley of the unknown. After the excitement of race has faded away you may be left wondering what to do next.

By setting short term and long term goals you can find out if you are doing what your supposed to be doing. By setting goals you can give yourself mini high fives when you win. Life is more enjoyable when you have something to strive for.

My purpose in life continues to be to seek and save the lost (passing on the Gospel of Jesus Christ). My goal in terms of relationships is to strive to be a godly husband, father and friend. My physical fitness goal is to complete the fitness program P90X and my financial goal is to gather 20 bookkeeping clients.

I find the best way to keep focused on my goals is to share them with friends and family that will hold me accountable. So I’m sharing my goals with you. If you feel comfortable I would like to find out what your goals are so I could hold you accountable.

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Oct 4 2009

Learning How to Listen

Originally Featured in The Javien Chronicles #25

Today I’d like to share with you an aspect of my life that is a work in progress. That aspect is my ability to listen. I know that it is a work in progress because I am reminded of the fact.

The Merriam-Webster’s definition of the word listen is to pay attention to sound or to hear something with thoughtful attention.

That’s my flaw, I neglect to give thoughtful attention. My process of listening is to hear what my wife has to say and quickly respond with a solution.

I can now see that I wasn’t really paying attention. You see how can you possibly pay attention if you are already thinking of a solution.  In my goal to be Mr. Fix a-lot, I forget to just listen.

I think that is why God gave us two ears and one mouth. He wanted us to listen more and talk less.

I’d like to leave you with this quote. “The world belongs to the man who is wise enough to change his mind in the presence of facts.” God’s Little Instruction Book for Men

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